Vauvenargues: When they fail to deceive you, they will start talking about how bad a person you are.
This quote by Vauvenargues suggests that when individuals can no longer manipulate or trick you, they often resort to tarnishing your reputation by criticizing your character. It implies that some people may use slander or disparagement as a defense mechanism when their deceptive efforts are unsuccessful. Instead of acknowledging their own shortcomings or the truth of the situation, they deflect by trying to undermine your worth or integrity. This reflects a common dynamic in interpersonal relationships where insecurity breeds hostility, and the failure to control the narrative can lead to hostility towards those who refuse to be fooled.
Quote By: Vauvenargues